I have to admit since summer vacation has started my son almost seems like a whole new kid. I'm assuming it's because he has more freedom's then he would during the school year. Sleeping in, the change of pace of school work and and just a general, one day at a time lazy day out look.
I did notice that yesterday after not getting much sleep the night before, when he started to loose at a game he was playing with the daycare kids melt down city was his destination. I was able to cut it off before the situation escalated.
I do have to say though that I recently had a conversation with a family member in regards to what has been going on with my son and have now realized that I will forever being facing ignorant people. People who believe that these children are a result of *today's society*, you know where kids are basically spoiled little brats (or at least my kid is (their words, not mine) and there is really nothing wrong with them that a little discipline wouldn't fix.
Not only was I insulted that parenting was called into question by someone who really doesn't have much a leg to stand on, but my heart also broke for my son as I realized he will continue to face this attitude by many through the years.
As a parent of a beautiful little boy who is wired a little differently, I beg of you to please refrain from judging the next time you see a child from this perspective. The reality is you just never know. These are bright, caring, loving children who deserve just as much love and respect as the next child.
Hugs, some people just have no idea.
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